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Look At The Time . . .

12/18/2019

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PictureHome Sweet Home - odd perspective taking a panoramic shot of a room.




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​Between Alaska’s long summer days luring me to playful adventures and labors of love as well as an attempt to drive my motorhome down the Alcan Highway this Fall to spend part of the winter visiting family and friends and hiking trails in Arizona and, too, a transition in my professional life - I’ve neglected my creative pursuits. But, life is slowly settling into a winter rhythm, a routine where time is, once again, a commodity. So, I pick up pen and paper this morning, turn my velvet tufted, blue Augusta chair toward my wall of windows that look out over the lake, prop my feet up on the window sill and sip my mocha as I write on life’s ever evolving events. 


I spent much of my summer preparing for a 3650 mile road trip from Alaska to my destination in Arizona. I pulled things out of storage, put things back in storage, made repairs, poured over the Milepost and the Rand McNalley and day dreamed of the possibilities. 

After fueling all the tanks, topping off the water and stocking both the refrigerator and the cabinets with supplies, I bid all an Au revior (goodbye) and happily steered toward a vision of sun kissed skin and hiking boots. But as visions tend to do at times, this one blurred when a $15 part and less than an hours worth of work halted my journey for 3 days in Tok, Alaska.

Lisa Hammond encourages that, “Sometimes on the way to your dream, you get lost and find a better one.” 

I stationed my “home” in an RV park and . . . waited. When I woke Sunday morning, I readied for the day and made my way to a little church where I received a warm welcome and an invitation to share lunch. A group of women gathered and we learned one another as I helped with their sewing project for Samaritans Purse. I was extended a dinner invitation, an offer of help and, too, a welcome to park my motorhome at my new friend’s home.  

I am not unaccustomed to traveling alone, I actually enjoy solitary travel. But as I sat in my motorhome . . . awaiting a $15 resolution, I felt grateful to be stranded, not only among such kindly folk, but too, where resources were easily accessible and where I still had phone reception. With the forecast of snow looming and the concern as to whether or not I’d be able to stay ahead of the storm, I decided the more prudent decision was to - turn around. I consoled myself with - “I’ll try this again next year.”

​The motorhome is now parked in the shop for the season. And I am spending the winter nestled in the woods atop a knoll overlooking a lake I’ve paddle boarded and jet skied on with friends. I now work from my home office where I look out my wall of windows onto each glorious new day. My schedule is still rotational which provides me half of the year off to create and adventure. Friends stop in on a regular basis gracing my abode with their fine company which makes my life sweet. My granddaughter, now licensed, is planning her own road trip and my home will soon be filled with laughter and play. 

Though my dream did not materialize as planned, I am certainly living the dream. Life is so very good. 

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    As a young adult, I believed there to be a point of arrival; a place where internal struggles with fear or anger or confusion give way to assurance and appropriate displays of passion and clarity of thought and direction. Where striving with relationships transform into understanding and acceptance and the propensity to self-protect shifts to trust and confident vulnerability. However, to my dismay, I was startled to learn, through a friend in her 80s, my perception was most definitely a misconception.

    My dear friend humbly confessed to me that she’d had a spat with her daughter, a few days prior to our visit, where she had to go back and apologize for words she’d spoken in anger. I’d only ever known my friend to be a soft spoken, humble, gentle, thoughtful, kind, considerate, caring and definitely a go-the-extra-mile kind of individual. My friend laughed at my wide-eyed disbelief that she were capable of anything but the aforesaid attributes. She gently assured me she too is a work in progress and in order for her to continue to grow, even in her 80s, apologies were a necessary part of her maturing. 

    At the time, I felt overwhelmed at hearing her confession as my own growth seemed so slow, from my perspective, in developing. I have since found her admission a comfort. I’ve learned that growth is indeed a life-long process and occasionally there is a bit of pain associated in the progression. There is pain at humbling enough to apologize, pain in drawing healthy boundaries that may meet with resistance and on the list of painful growth promoting processes proceed. But, pain is merely an indication that maturity is finding its way into my character and my habits and my thought processes. Pain bears the potential to remind me that my life story is a gloriously, messy one similar to those of my fellow growth promoting family members, friends and associates. And . . . pain too, reminds me that I am very much alive. Growing pains indicate I am still in the race working toward a strong finish. 
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    We’re never too old to grow our character, change our habits or renew our thought processes - in spite of pain, or maybe, because of pain.

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It's such fun jumping on beds . . . and couches too and eating pie from the center before serving it to others. I love laughing and I appreciate people who make me. 

Life is amazing with its possibilities. And, I am blessed by the wonderful people in my life and the liberty I have to pursue what brings me joy. In spite of life's griefs, there is peace and joy and love enough to fill all the spaces.


                                                      Zephaniah 3:17
​"The Lord your God is in your midst, a Warrior who gives victory; He will rejoice over you with gladness, He will renew you in His love, He will exult over you with songs of deliverance."



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